Asakusa Geisha Culture: How-to & Etiquette Q&A【Miyakodori】

Last updated: 2025-09-27▶ Knowledge Q&A▶ History Q&A

This page covers the practical side of a geisha banquet in Asakusa: how the evening flows, typical duration, popular games, suggested manners, and notes for families.

Q. What is the typical flow of a geisha banquet?

The usual order is:

• ① Entrance of the geisha
• ② Opening of the banquet (greetings & toast)
• ③ Conversation
• ④ Dance performance
• ⑤ Parlor games
• ⑥ Conversation & photos
• ⑦ Closing

Q. How long does a banquet usually last?

About 2 or 3 hours is most common.

Q. Why are 2–3 hours common?

Because the time-based fee (tamadai) is charged per hour. In Asakusa’s karyūkai, the minimum is 2 hours. Policies differ by district or venue.

Q. What parlor games are played?

Content varies with your preferences and the mood. Many banquets start with Konpira Fune Fune, followed by Tora Tora or Tōsenkyō.

• Read more (JP): Tips to Make Parlor Games Livelier

On the day, ask the performers for a lineup that suits your group.

Q. How many geisha should we invite?

There is no fixed rule. Fees change with the number of performers. For first-time guests, we recommend leaving the composition to the venue.

Q. I’m not sure how to interact—what should I do?

Start with a toast, then relax. The geisha guide the flow of the banquet.

Q. Are there things I should not do during the banquet?

• Do not touch the performers or their kimono.
• Do not handle interior decor, artworks, or other furnishings.
• Use fragrances sparingly out of consideration for others.

Q. Should I prepare gratuities or tokens of appreciation?

Many venues include an equivalent within the total bill, so separate preparation is often unnecessary. Handing it directly is a traditional, stylish gesture in some settings—confirm with your venue in advance.

Q. Any etiquette tips for interacting with geisha?

Basic courtesy is enough. Avoid overbearing or high-handed behavior, and ask before photos or special requests.

Q. Can women enjoy this, too?

Yes. Many women and girls’-night groups enjoy it and report high satisfaction.

Q. Can small children attend?

Policies vary by venue, so check in advance. Miyakodori accepts reservations for guests with small children.

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